I have a question for all you readers. Do you feel that you have equal say in your relationship with your boyfriend/girlfriend/spouse, whatever it may be? Although Love can sometimes be blind, I want you to pick apart all aspects of your two's time together and think about it critically. Who makes decisions on where to go out to eat? Or what to do when you are together? Do they ask for your opinion when different situations or discussions occur? My all time favorite- who is on top and who is on bottom?
I believe that in todays world Equally should be one of the most important aspects of a relationship, also including Love and Trust. But this is still hard to find. I still see boyfriends making decisions on what they are going todo or go without asking their girlfriend. Or girlfriends expecting the boyfriends to pay for dinner or date event without offering or talking about her paying next time, because that is "custom" for the man to pull his wallet out on those types of occassions.
What do you think?
My boyfriend and I have only been dating about two months and we've never had any problem when it comes to figuring out what we're going to do. He always leaves the decision up to me or asks me what II want to do. When we go out together I always offer to pay my part, he usually just denies my offer and pays my part anyway. I can see where you're coming from, because I definitely still see that in some relationships, but I do think it's becoming less common.
ReplyDeleteI dont want this to come off as rude, but two months is still in the "Honeymoon" stage. Not that I am saying that things between you two will not change, but many details of who each other are and realizing problems and things that might not have been anything at first, turn into big somethings later on. But I do feel it is becoming less common than it was 15-20 years ago. Thanks for the comment
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